أَخْبَرَنَا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ عَوْنٍ ، أَخْبَرَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، أَنَّ هِنْدًا أُمَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ امْرَأَةَ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ أَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَإِنَّهُ لَا يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَبَنِيَّ إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ، وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ، فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ جُنَاحٌ؟ فَقَالَ :" خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَوَلَدَكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ "

Ja`far ibn Aoun informed us, Hisham ibn Urwa informed us, on the authority of his father, on the authority of Aisha, that Hind, the mother of Muawiyah, the wife of my father Sufyan came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said: O Messenger of God, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man and he does not give me enough. And he built me, except what I took from him, and he does not know. Is there any blame on me for that? He said: “Take what is sufficient for you and your child on a reasonable basis.”